I have not just temporarily gained some weight, which I’m going to lose soon again. I mean, yes that may happen, but it is not sustainable from a mental health point of view to continue waiting for myself to have enough energy to “deal with my weight”.
here’s a short snippet from my twitter which kinda sums it up:
there it is, I’m fat. I admit it. I come out, if you so will. And I accept it.
the only way for me to be healthy mentally and physically is to accept myself just the way I am right now.